How to love having sex?

Question

This may sound silly to ask but what can I do to start enjoying sex? I hear how people speak about it with so much passion and they always want to have sex but I don’t feel the same way. Matter of fact, I can go 3 years without having sex.... I enjoy mastubating more than I enjoy the actual sex

Answer

I get that. I’m not a huge fan either. I love my husband and being close to him, but I would be totally fine if we just gave massages and cuddled haha but I definitely enjoy it more when he or I stimulate my clit. We’ve purchased toys to help make it more convenient.

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Have you tried changing things up a bit? What do you do yo try to get yourself in the mood? 
Do you wear hot lingerie? Do you shower and shave and think about it to get your body thinking about it? 
I sometimes send my hubby a "scandalous picture" that I require him to erase immediately but just to get him thinking about it too.

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That’s how I was for most of my life. None of the sex I’d ever had had been that great so I didn’t get the hype. I’ve gone 2-3+ years without it. That was until I got with my current boyfriend. Sex with him is always amazing so now I find myself missing it easily. But I didn’t feel that way until I found someone who made the sex really good

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No advice, but I agree! I don’t “need” it like some. I think we’re so “busy” with life sometimes sex seems like a chore

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