Orgasms

Hi . I’m 22 and lost my virginity about 6 months ago. I’ve tried playing with myself but just can’t get myself there cause I don’t perfer doing it myself. But with my boyfriend I can’t either. The sex is nice and I enjoy his head and I get very wet like omg but idk what we’re doing wrong to get me there . Help plz. I’ve waited this long to have sex just to not orgasm 😅