Really need some advice

Jayla

Okay y’all I use to talk to this dude but long story short he sent me I long message saying I wasn’t women enough for him or I wasn’t I strong black women and that kinda hurted me because I’m still young I’m only 20 I’m still tryna figure out myself and yes I have a job and yes I’m in school so what do he expect from me ????

I just wanna know if it’s me because I don’t have my life together just yet I really need some advice right now