I’m first going to state that I know everyone is not the same. Me and my boyfriend have little in common, I can say I grew up always cleaning, picking up after myself etc. As for my boyfriend I know he did not which is fine because not everyone grew up being clean and things like that. But It’s very hard on me because he’s not very clean, some examples:

•not picking up dirty clothes and shoes from the bathroom

•leaving shaved hair in the sink

•leaving trash on the floor or crumbs (I’ll be like there’s crumbs on the floor and he’s just toss it onto the floor like common sense pick it up and throw it away)

I can say my boyfriend is a man but he doesn’t do things around the house like man stuff. He won’t ever take out the trash. We live with his parents and his stepdad always does it. He never does anything and it drives me insane. Just right now I want to clean our car out that we just got from a friend and he doesn’t even say like it I want help. He’ll be like if it’s a small mess it won’t bother me. It’s pretty dirty and I just wish he would be considerate sometimes and idk how to get him to without him getting all offended by me. Does anyone know how I can make him be better at being clean?