I just had my baby 4 days ago and my MIL lives with us. Today she went out so she could drive her 40 plus year old daughter to her foot doctors appt and go food shopping and whatever else they do for for 5 plus hours. I was really mad about this because her daughter lives in an apartment complex and is NOT in our household. I was telling my husband that it wasnt an essential trip and her 40 year old daughter needed to grow up and take care of her own shit. There is nothing wrong with her daughter she is just lazy and poor because of it but can still afford a triple play cable package and ipsy makeup subscription but cant manage to get an uber? I can understand getting groceries but doing other things like getting orthopedic shoes and going to the dogpark with someone that doesnt live with you are not freaking important.

Fast forward we had the door open because it was hot and she just walks in wanting to see the baby. I was like please stop right there id rather you not come in here. And she is like why? Im like you just spent half a day during quarantine with people not in your household and i just brought home a brand new baby. We had a talk with her before we came home because the doctor was stressing that we not come in unnecessary contact with other people and she was doing this before hand. . She was like why I washed up. She was like you are being rude and basically slammed the door in my face. Like seriously? I was almost not allowed to have my husband with me when i gave birth he had to stay in the hospital with me for 3 days without leaving and you think this is ok? I did not stop her from coming in the room, holding the baby, etc before this. She is making it seem like im just being a bitch cause we have issues dealing with each other. My hormonal self got all pissed and started going off. God i hated her before this now i really cant stand having her here and i want to throw her out but she is patheic and has nowhere. How am i going to deal with her?