My husband of six years just told me he doesn’t care to have kids nor does he want them at all. Yet, the past couple years he’s been talking about building a family with me and when he got home from deployment last year, we tried for several months. It’s now a year later since he’s been home and just told me he doesn’t care about having kids anymore and that he just tried because that’s what I wanted. If I didn’t want kids I wouldn’t try. I wish he could’ve been honest from the beginning instead of saying he dreamt of it too and that “it will happen someday.” I want things to work out and in hopes he could change his mind about having kids. But what if that doesn’t happen? I love him and he supports me but I do very much want kids one day. I can’t bring that with someone who doesn’t want them. I don’t know how to feel or what to do. I love him so much to see if he’ll change his mind but also I love myself to want to share and bring another life into this world with. I’m so sad and heartbroken. I asked if he could change his mind “I don’t predict the future. I don’t want kids. I don’t know if that will change I don’t think so.” I would love some advice :(