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Btw... itās nice to see someone having safe sex!
Someon plz help calm me downš£
I donāt even understand why Iām panicking, maybe quarantine is just forcing my anxiety to skyrocket, but Iām so scared that Iām pregnant. Btw, Iām not too you to be having sex, Iām 25, but i get really nervous a lot about this stuff. I havenāt ever missed a pill, i started the combo pill at the end of March 2019. Ever since, my bed and I have always used condoms and he always pulls out before he cums strictly bc we had a legitimate pregnancy scare last year that turned out to be an overactive then ruptured cyst...so yes we are always protected. Although, in the beginning of sex usually heāll go in a little without a condom but heās nowhere close to finishing. My period is due next Wednesday, but Iāve been having sore boobs for a little over a week now, theyāve subsided a little but they just feel ādifferentā, but donāt really look bigger. Also Iāve been having real noticeable cramps since Tuesday and thatās so not normal for me a week before i start...Iām really freaking out and i donāt understand why. I take every precaution other than abstinence but Iām still panicking. Idk how to calm myself down and not over stress to the point where, if Iām not pregnant, i delay my period bc Iām a crazy stress-mess. Someone please tell me Iām not insane or how to calm downš
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Hey there šš¼ First you have to take a deep breath. A baby is not always planned. I have one unplanned daughter that is 7 years old and the light of my world. I became pregnant 6 months after my 21st birthday and I contemplated my life/future for about 2 days before realizing this was my life/future. I was on drugs heavily and drinking heavily. All of that stopped the second my test said positive. Here I am 29 nearing 30 and I am having my second daughter in 2 weeks, she was planned. The feeling is the exact same though. I have anxiety and I have love and wonder and hope and fear. After you breath, take time to think rationally. If you are, then you are... Next, what do YOU want. You are already in your head so, just change the way you are in it and control your thought responses. Last... itās going to be OKAY. š
I think allowing him to be inside you without a condom at all completely negates the use of the condom afterwards. Precum can still contain sperm and get you pregnant even though itās unlikely. If youāre going to use condoms, use them the whole time so they actually have a chance to work and so you stop freaking yourself out. Youāre probably just late because of stress. Try to relax and not think about it for a couple days, if it still doesnāt come then take a test.
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Also if you take the pill exactly how youāre supposed to, chances of pregnancy are very slim.
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