Ladies... I’m 4mpp and exclusively pump. My sex drive is basically non existent and I feel really bad for my husband. I manage to “do the deed” once about every week or so but it takes ALOT and I mean ALOT of encouragement from myself to myself to get things done. Once we get things going it’s the same as always, amazing. It’s just getting to that point that’s the issue it seems like such a tedious task 😂 idk how else to describe it.

Please tell me I’m not alone, will it change once I’m done breastfeeding / pumping?

Is anyone out there experiencing the same thing currently and feel bad for your husband/so?

Any “ideas” to help myself feel normal again?

**Please no peanut gallery comments “your man just isn’t doing it right” blah blah blah 🙄 don’t be that person