I was in an abusive relationship for years. He called me names like whore, slut, bitch, fat, discusting. Told me my breasts and vagina were ugly and disgusting. Disrespected my family and friends. was controlling as hell. Accused me of cheating for no reason. Manipulated me into thinking he treated me like a princess and i was just ungrateful. I attempted suicide when I was with him because I was so miserable. My younger sister dated a man who hit her and was contolling. My best friend was in an emotionally abusive relationship with a guy who cheated on her and treated her like garbage. I had another friend who was with a lazy bum who used her for money and cheated on her. How do I avoid these kinds of horrible men and meet a good man?