I lost my virginity to my boy friend about 2 months ago and we’ve been having really good and consistent sex since which has but I haven’t orgasmed yet. I get so close and then I cant handle the stimulation anymore, my clit because sensitive and it’s so overwhelming I have to get him to stop. The same happens when I masturbate.

We’re both really comfortable with each other and he bought me a vibrator. We used it last night for the first time and I ended up so close to an orgasm that I was laughing and crying uncontrollably. I feel like this may have been and orgasm but I didn’t come.

So...

- Why did I laugh and happy cry ?

- Does uncontrollable laughter and crying plus the need to suddenly stop stimulation mean I orgasmed?

- Can you orgasm without coming?

- How do I know if I orgasmed?