So my bf and I have been together for over 2 years now. And I’m now just starting to notice that every time I talk about my feeling about our relationship he say “why do u always have to start an argument” 95% of the time I am not starting an argument I’m just telling him how I feel about a situation. For example I want us to call each other more since we can’t see each rn because of quarantine. So I brought it up to him saying “hey we don’t really talk on the phone much and I want to do that” and he hits me with the “uhhh why do u have to start an argument” or “uhhh isn’t what I’m doing enough”. I never really noticed that he would always say that but now thinking back to it he ALWAYS did this since the start. And I’m so annoyed by it now. I can’t tell him anything without him making me feel like I’m starting a problem. And sometimes when I’m talking to him he falls asleep on the phone as if he doesn’t care what I have to say. But oh when it comes to him trying to fix a situation I’m wide awake listening and trying to understand his side so I can fix the problem and better myself.