Am I crazy for wanting a baby

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justice

My husband is so scared cause of the epidemic about me getting pregnant and giving birth. I've wanted a baby for so long. Our 3 year wedding anniversary is Monday. I feel like no matter what the world is gonna have some craziness going on. He says he wants to wait till this all ends. But what if it doesnt. What if it keeps coming back. I don't want to spend the rest of my 20s without a baby. Each female in my family usually has to have a hysterectomy around our 30s. I dont want to 30 and still not have a baby. I'm afraid this epidemic will never really go away and we will just have to learn a new way of living....someone please just help me get through this feeling of I'm never gonna be able to have a baby.

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The pandemic could easily go on for months. Or go away, and start up again next year. Or there could be a new pandemic in a few years. You don’t know what’s going to happen so don’t plan your life decisions around things you can’t control and have no way of knowing what will happen.

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justice • Apr 24, 2020
Thank you so much. This is exactly what I've been trying to get through my husbands head

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I found out I was pregnant 2 days before the quarantine started and everything got crazy. It’s a strange time but if anything it’s been kind of convenient to hunker down at home and stay out of public during this first trimester. It’s made it very easy to keep it a secret until my husband and I are ready to share! I’m due in November and feeling quite confident things will be cleared up by then. It’s a hard call to make, but there never seems to be a “perfect” time to get pregnant. If you and your partner are ready, you just have to go for it!

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justice • Apr 19, 2020
We were ready and trying this year up until the epidemic. Now he basically doesnt even wanna have sex cause hes so down about it all. Makes me feel GREAAT😒.