Hits ladies, I just need some advice about my partner.. I’ve been noticing certain things recently and I just want to know if I’m overthinking everything or I have a genuine reason to be concerned. So I’ll start with the little things like recently when he goes to the bathroom he will take his phone with him every single time and I won’t hear a video like I would usually when he goes, even if he goes for a pee he will take it with him and take longer than usual and again I won’t hear any water noises. He’s been going on random walks too like one moment he will just say to me that he will be going on a walk at a specific time and hw won’t know what time he will be getting back. It’s going to sound bad but he was out with his brother last week and I went through his phone and I found messages between him and multiple girls, they were nothing more than a normal conversation (Hey, How’re you?) but he told me he’d never speak to any girls after November where after he told me he was going to sleep he would message other girls and tell them they’re beautiful, that they would make a good couple together and so on, also messaging his ex’s. Back in July as well he went to France with some friends and he took all his best clothes, best spray as his Calven Klein’s which he only wears for me and I came across a message asking one of the girls to sleep with him if she felt uncomfortable throughout the night. Sometimes I pretend I’m asleep and watch him scrolling through his Facebook and he likes and comments on photos of other girls who I’ve never seen before. I just need to know if I’m being paranoid or not? I have really bad trust issues since the last and only other relationship I have been in I got cheated on and obviously the trust level with him now is lower than usual since the France trip and November. He has always has a reputation for being a player, we were friends for years before we decided to get together and I remember him being in multiple different relationships that lasted months at a time whilst we were friends. I suffer with anxiety too which could be a factor of my brain tricking me into thinking the worst. Any advice is extremely appreciated. :)