What’s better?

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When something is your partner has been doing, saying, etc has been bothering you, do you just keep it to yourself or tell your partner even though it’s going to end in an argument?

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I tell, but not everything had to be an argument. Have your say and leave it at that. Don't engage if you see it's headed for an argument.

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Communication is always best. Even if it's not always comfortable.

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I tell that MF because he sure tells me!

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The best: tell partner and work through it
What I do: bottle it inside until I have a mental breakdown

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I tell him, but we rarely argue.

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Communication is key

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It depends on if it’s something little or if it’s an ongoing issue, sometimes I can talk myself out of being hurt/irritated by something if I can understand why he said or did a certain thing but if I can’t & it’s still bugging me then I’ll say something about it, I’m also someone who likes to rehearse what I’m going to say so that usually helps me be less angry & confrontational when I do finally say something

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Eh I’d say pick your battles. Is it really worth fighting about something that you won’t remember tomorrow? 
Also depends on my mood. If I know I’m aggravated, then bringing it up will probably just come across as me having an attitude and him getting defensive and that definitely won’t be a productive conversation. 
For the most part I’d say yes you always want to have open communication and let each other know what’s bothering you, but there are times I’d just let it go.

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