Does your first kid have to be his first?

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Just curious lol

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Assuming I want kids in the future, yes. 
I personally wouldn't date anyone who already had kids. 
If I already had a child though I would be open to the possibility. As long as I'm childless, I want to date someone who's on the same page.

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I used to think so, until I got married, had a kid, and then found out my husband was a drug addict and alcoholic. I became a single mom, and started dating my now husband. He didn’t have kids, and never wanted to date someone with kids. I’m very grateful that he chose to love me AND my daughter. Now that I’m on the other side of it, I feel bad for thinking the way I did previously, because my husband could’ve easily chosen a different path.

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I woukd never date someone with kids. I've been there, done that, it's always so much drama. In my experience, at least. The mothers never left me alone and were complete bullies and then when I did get along with of the mothers, I realized he let his kids run WILD so discipline was always an issue and as a step mom. That's risky territory. I wouldn't.

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I’m glad my husband didn’t think that way. I brought in a daughter from a previous relationship. He’s now adopted her and we have a baby together now.

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I’m glad my first child is also his child. I wouldn’t want to date someone with kids. Personal preference.

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For me, yes. When I was single, I chose not to date men with kids for this reason and I personally didn’t want to deal with a baby momma (good, bad or indifferent).

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No. I didn’t mind dating someone with kids if it came to that. Cause I love kids, I’ll love his like my own, but I didn’t have that happen. My brother did, he had his first baby with someone that has 2 kids. At first he was worried about issues with ‘baby daddies’ (2 different ones) but then he learned one died, and the other was respectful with him so he still stayed with her. My nephew is 4 🥰 My ‘adopted’ nephews are 20 and 13 lol

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I didn’t want to date any men with kids bc for 1) I didn’t have kids & 2) I didnt wana deal with another woman. . WELL I was transferring from one job to another & walked in to his location. It was love @ 1st sight. I knew he was my soul mate. He told me when we met that he was separated with 3 daughters (1 ex wife). He won me over & He we are 7 years laters. I have 2 boys with him!

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i'm glad that my first child was his first child. we're getting to learn about it all together. and that's something that only we share, so it's special. I understand both ways tho, if you have kids and are dating you obviously don't have room to judge if the other person has kids. but if you don't have kids it's ok to want someone who has none as well.

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No but I’m glad it worked out that way.

Does your first kid have to be his first?

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