What would you do?

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So my hubby's brother called my little one a b**** and she's not even born yet,and I told my hubby and he talked to him but he said he never did it,but before he said that he told him he did.So what should I do? I want to kick his butt. Makes me mad

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Only a bitch of a man would say that, I wouldn't let him around the baby

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I would've flipped tf out!! Maybe it's my hormones or just the fact that I'm short tempered anyway, but that's bullshit and I probably would've ended up decking him(I know..not very mature. Shame on me) that is just way too far considering she's not even born! I don't care why he said it, I would have a hard time keeping my mouth shut around him.

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Don't kick his butt. Tell your hubby that regardless if his brother admits he said it or not, you know what was said and it was offensive. Alotta people will tell you not to overreact or let it go but if this is something that bothers you then tell your husband "look, I just don't wanna feel like I have to punk him in his face every time I see him. He's your brother, I don't want the drama, I just want an apology. Without him saying sorry, it's gonna be really hard to be around him and I don't want it to come down to you having to pick sides." Hopefully this helps. If not, let me know and we can go kidnap his brother and teach him some manners.

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Some guys / boys , seem to "get off" by what they know will get to a person . Like him calling your innocent baby the b word was most likely directed towards you & how he thinks of you as a person . It's messed up to say the least . No excuse other than him clearly showing what an asshole HE can be . As your hubby goes , not sticking up for him or anything just my point of view , seems as if he didn't mean any harm by not saying anything only because in his mind probably , he wanted to avoid any conflict on both ends . He probably doesn't see it as a big deal either , but then again your his mother to his child and really it's not the argument you probably even want or "conflict" it's the respect and appreciation thing more than anything . Once things calm down just talk to him . Hopefully it'll all ease .

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Personally If it was me I would not let him around me or the baby but that's up to you. Your husband might be mad about that but what his brother did is very disrespectful.

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