I'm not ttc after this..

Purple bee
So my husband and I Have two toddlers. I wanted another baby. He wanted one but in future. I wasn't no longer on birth control. I told him every time I was on my fertile day that there was a high chance so if he didn't want one he needed to use something. He continued. Now that there's a high chance of me being pregnant he tells me that it stresses him and he doesn't want one now. That if I am he will learn to love it. I don't want him to "learn" I want him to accept it as I do, I thought we were both in agreement when we were having sex. I never trapped him in this. But now I feel guilty and that this possible baby will be unwanted l. Advice ladies???? I'm so emotional.