Am I being to harsh?

jen

So me and my boyfriend use to have sex allllll the time! Like every single day. He would always tell me how much he wanted me and how horny I made him etc. well the last year or so he wants absolutely nothing to do with me sexually. Like at all. Not even sexual talk. Dislikes when I send him sexual things because he says now its “tacky” or “weird”. I’ve begged and begged for him to tell me what’s wrong or what happened to make things just completely change. He says “I’ll work on it” well it’s been a year and everything is still the same. We have sex maybe every 4 months or so which is like 3-4 times a year. We live together. Is it wrong of me to tell him that he needs to tell me what’s going or if he’s having a hard time with his sex drive that he needs to go get help or we can’t continue with our relationship? I can’t keep going on feeling unwanted anymore. It’s taking a toll. He doesn’t even look at me if I’m naked. If I ask him for sex he huffs and puffs and gets annoyed. Relationships aren’t all about sex and I know that but I just feel so unwanted.