Big rant, don’t know what to do :/
I started dating this guy in August of last year. We got pregnant fairly quickly. In January of this year. I also have a two year old from a previous relationship. Well we got our own place and everything was going great he helps with my daughter great and it was just nice. Well we haven’t had sex since January, which is fine because I’ve been put on pelvic rest because I have a small bleed on our baby’s sac because I was rear ended in the early stages of my pregnancy. But besides the sex. He never hugs, cuddles, kisses or does anything intimate with me at all. It makes me feel really undesirable and just like he’s repulsed by me. I have brought it up to him multiple times and he tells me it’s because he doesn’t think I’m comfortable enough with him because I don’t talk a lot. (Im just a quiet person in general.) I’ve never been much of a talker. Well so I started to work on my communication as he said he’d like me to but yet still nothing in his side for intimacy. I’ve brought it up again and it seems like he just doesn’t care he always says that I’m still not communicating the way he wants or needs even though I’ve asked multiple times what he needs and wants so I can work on it. He’s also now starting to bring up that I will leave the dishes in the sink for a day or two. I’m 4 months pregnant with a toddler, 4 dogs to take care of and I just stopped throwing up not that long ago. He always brings up the dishes and the house yet I’m the only one who ever cleans them or the house. The entire time we’ve lived together not once has he ever done the dishes. It’s starting to really get to me and I feel really unhappy and just don’t know what to do. Can someone give me some advice please?
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