Help!!Indian bf. arrange marriage.

Yvette • 19.twin.expect the worst but hope for the best.
My bf and I have been dating for a while now. We have different religions and cultures. I didn't know anything about his religion(Sikh)and how it worked honestly. Couple of months after we got together he told me about how his parents set arrange marriages for him and his brother. Throughout our relationship I don't exist to his family or anything apparently they're not allowed to date. Recently couple of weeks ago he told me to marry him & of course I said yes. But agin I felt like everything went downhill couple of days ago. Why? Because we talked things through and he said we can't be together even though he wants to we can't, that I won't never be accepted because I'm not Indian and that it would be a shame possibly. He said we should break up well it's up to me before it's late. That his family and religion come first. It hurts knowing it's the truth ;I'm so confused ; I love him very much but yet I feel like I should let him go before it's too late but then again I don't want to. 
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Ch

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My fiancee is indian and his parents try to set him up with girls because they don't know about me and him yet his mom would want to meet me right now and that's not possible right now. He can say ko to the arrange marriage if he loves you he should stay with you I know it will be hard for him to tell his parents but a loveless marriage isn't good it's not good at all maybe it's what his parents want but it a not what he wants he proposed to you not her. He doesn't want to upset his parents but ya know he needs to have his life to

Ch

Cheyenne • Sep 14, 2014
Break off the arranged marriage and marry you with his parents approval

Ch

Cheyenne • Sep 14, 2014
Try talking to them and see if they like you and see how happy you make there son that might be enough for him to

Ch

Cheyenne • Sep 14, 2014
If not he should introduce you to them and see if they like you

Ch

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You need to talk things through with him, if you don't talk to him things wont get better

Ch

Cheyenne • Sep 13, 2014
I would find out about his religion so you can understand better and find out about it so you better understand it