My husband and I have been actively trying for almost a year to have a baby. We only used protection for the first few months we were together. Then we used the pull out method. Until we got married, then we just had sex to be doing it. We weren't trying but weren't doing anything to prevent it either. But here we are almost a year of nothing but trying and still no luck. Starting to feel like something is wrong with one of us. I'm afraid it's with me tho because when I was about 18, I was diagnosed with HPV. They told me I had abnormal cells on my cervix but I've not been checked since then. Mainly because they cut my insurance and we just recently got it back. Also, I'm almost 24 now. I don't want to give up but at the same time I don't want to be brokenhearted month after month. My cycles are all over the place this past 6 to 8 months. It used to always be on time. Now I have cycles anywhere from 35 to 87 days. This is becoming so much for me to handle :'( sorry just needed to vent and I literally have nobody i can talk to about any of this