I’m a bit young and I’ll obviously wait until I get out of college, but I have always wanted a baby and I don’t want to wait, I want to have a child young so I understand them better, but here’s my dilemma: I also really want a wife or gf that raises and cares for the child as well, but I don’t want to wait to find the perfect SO before I have a child, but I also don’t want to scare everyone off with the thought of me already having a child. (I was going to get a sperm donor if you were wondering how) so I just need opinions...