Relationship help
Ok so I just want to start off by saying I am not going to leave him I just want to sort out our problems.
So me and my boyfriend have been living together for over a month in quarantine now, the past weeks have been getting worse and worse and we've been fighting quite a bit, not like serious fights but it always turns into that, well argue about something stupid and after a bit it will just turn into him saying how he doesn't know how much longer he can handle our relationship and how it's just a giant stressor to him.
He keeps telling me that I never listen to him and that I need to just drop arguments but whenever I try to drop it he'll always say something back to me in a sassy tone like 'alright' or 'yup' and I keep telling him that if he doesn't do that I will drop the argument and he keeps telling me that I don't listen to him but I am on medication that makes me forgetful and I've tried to explain that to him but he said I can't use it as an excuse I am really trying to make.our relationship better I am but it's hard and I don't think he realises that. He's telling me that I stress him out to the point where he wants to pack his stuff and leave. I will try to tell him that that hurts to hear and that he should have more hope in our relationship and he tells me that I'm just trying to make him go back on what he said and make him feel bad but I am just trying to express how I feel with all this going on and he says I can't use that as an excuse either. Oh yeah he also said I have a deep rooted mental issue that doesn't allow me to accept when I'm wrong or that I did something bad.
I understand that I need to just drop arguments and I have been trying to it's just when I try to drop it he will say something back like he's mad at me for dropping it now he's explained to me that he isn't mad when he says stuff like that and to just ignore it and I have been. We haven't argued since but I still feel trapped like I can't talk to him because if I do in wrong and my feelings seem to be invalid.
I understand that I have been stressing him out but whenever I ask what I've done wrong he just says I already told you, I can't remember because of my meds so I'm going off them for him to see if it helps. I just don't know what to do.
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