Baby shower or baby sprinkle?


I know its still early (I'm only 13 weeks) but me and my husband have been seriously planning and he wants a baby shower,a big one . We do already have a almost 5 yr old. My mom threw me a baby shower with our first but my husband was not able to attend due to conflict between our families which have been resolved. I know the proper thing would be to have a baby sprinkle since we already have a child but would we be wrong have a full blown baby shower?

What did you do with you second child?