My boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex with me. Is it a sign that he’s not interested?

A little bit of a background. When our relationship first began we’d make crazy excuses to fuck each other any chance we got. And I realize my sex drive is high. Yeah it feels good but its also a good way to remain close to your partner and make them feel good. So it’s more than just getting a fuck in for me.

Anyway about a 6 months into our relationship we started having sex about once a week, no biggie, I mean schedules change and we have to be more responsible.

The first excuses he gave me were that it wasn’t the right time or place. I agree. Car sex gets risky and we’re both 20 but living with our parents. (Don’t come at us we’re getting our education and working)

But let me tell you. EVERY SINGLE TIME I SEE THIS MAN HE IS TOUCHY AND FEELY. Everywhere. He’ll joke around which is all cool. But then he goes as far as fingering me for a solid five seconds and kissing my neck but it doesn’t go anywhere. For me, I get the impression he wants to fuck. But then he says he doesn’t want to because his sister is home. I understand but shouldn’t he not dig in my pants for the same reason?

And get this. Once I’m turned on he starts expressing that I always want sex. I’m always thinking about it blah blah blah. No shit I’m gonna want to have sex if you’re constantly kissing up on me only to disappoint me every time.

I don’t see him planning or craving sex but he’s just always touching me and turning me on and just leaving me horny. I’ve last track of count of how many times I’ve had to come home and masturbate to finish myself. Now I did talk to him about it and he said he’d stop and only touch me if we were gonna fuck.

So with this whole quarantine thing. He recently purchased gym equipment bc gyms are closed.

So I come over to work out and I’m doing my thing. And you know what he does? He pulls my pants down fingers me for five seconds, kisses my neck, rubs his dick on my ass. And pulls my pants right back up because “he heard something”

So I ask where it’s going, are we gonna have some fun? Finally? He says we’ll see later all seductive like.

Just in case you haven’t guessed it we didn’t fuck.

I haven’t gotten a proper fucking in months. All he does is tease me and does not follow through.

So. I come over again today to pick something up. He jumps with glee because he’s home alone. We go to this bedroom and he fucks me. He lasted two minutes.

This is not his fault and I understand. I hinted that I wanted to finish... and he says but if we get caught and my family comes home early? Man.

Hearing this was worse than not getting fucked at all. If that we’re the case, he shouldn’t have gotten his little cum in.

Fast forward a little more.

Somehow my family leaves me home alone. The stars aligned y’all. I busted out some cute lingerie. I was ready to go to town. I wanted to do all sorts of things to him and chuck the frustration out the window.

So I shoot him a text and I’m trying to be all seductive like. I’m craving him. So bad. I send him that home alone text. And he saids...

I’m so confused. I’m embarrassed for even asking. I don’t know what this means. He says the only thing on my mind is sex lately but that’s only because he puts it there. It’s frustrating that he gets to be satisfied but not me.

If I’m completely wrong in this situation please tell me. I enjoy receiving an outside perspective. I just understand what he wants. At this point I just don’t want to have sex at all.

Disclaimer: I won’t reveal where I live as a precaution but the isolation has been lifted. Only people out in public have to wear masks but legally we are able to see one another.