So my sweet baby is 3 months old, and he’s literally my happiness. I adore my boy soo mych but for the past few weeks he literally won’t let me do anything, he wants me to hold him all the time! I can’t cook, I can’t eat, I can’t go to the bathroom, I can’t workout. I literally get at most 20 minutes to myself at a time before he starts crying. He enjoys his swing, play mat, bouncer for at most 20 Minutes during the day. When he naps I have to hold him for about 30 minutes before attempting to set him down because he will wake up if I set him down before he is fully asleep! Most days I’m okay with this but lately I’ve been super frustrated with him. And I feel like I can be mean to him sometimes and tell him “ why won’t you let me do anything why can’t you just sleep” and I absolutely feel like a shitty mom for saying that to my baby because he simply wants to be with me! He does have trouble napping during the day some days he naps for 2 hours straight some days he naps and wakes up every 15 minutes.

My husband is a big help when he is home from work so evenings are a lot less stressful.

I’m a new mom and this is all new to me. I’m just frustrated.