Am I ready? Marriage.

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Basically, I'm supposed to be getting married to my fiancé in the next couple of years.. We've been together for 3 years and the date is set so we will have been together for 5 nearly 6 years. My problem is that I know I love him a lot and he loves me but I can't shake the feeling that he might not be my soul mate.. We are good together but sometimes.. I just don't know.. I'm not sure if it's because of my depression & anxiety but every now and then I just start worrying that he's not the one I'm meant to be with.. I love him and want to be with him but it won't stop the paranoid thoughts..

I've loved before him and it felt so much more intense and easy to do it.. I know it's never the same but it's scaring me:/

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I had that same feeling a week before my wedding. We had been together since 2010 and got married October 17, 2015. He is my best friend and I can't see my life without him but as my wedding day came closer I found myself thinking what if I were making a mistake and what if my REAL soulmate was still out there. I got over the feelings quickly though because there's no point in dreading what you don't know.

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Then it sounds like you've got a few years to figure it out. Love is not always intense like the movies. A lot of times love like that ends badly( obsessions or violence or different things). If you can't imagine your life without him then he's the one. If you think you can, then end it. I felt the same way about my hubby because we just didn't mesh and fought a lot. So I suggested we take a break and I started hanging out with a friend who gave me "intense" feelings. What a nightmare. I realized really quickly that my hubby was the one for me.

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If you have second thoughts, don't do it!  Don't become a statistic...

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I believe love is a choice, and that we choose to be happy. I love, and am in love with my husband. I know that he is who I want to choose to be with forever. Does that mean I always like him? No he bugs the hell out of me sometimes. But he's the one I want to go to bed with at night, and wake up to in the morning. He is the one I want to go through things with, hard or easy. He is the one I want to raise kids with, and grow old together. I don't necessarily believe in soul mates. I think that you can make it work with more than just one guy ever. If you are always looking for your soul mate you could be passing up your husband. Also if you've been together for 3 years and are having doubts maybe it isn't right.

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Update for all you lovely ladies, it’s a lot of time since then and we broke up, he wasn’t a soulmate, he wasn’t shit actually (abusive, cheating liar he turned out to be)  😂 but now I have found my soulmate and I’m counting down the time until we are married and have a family of our own! Things really get better 💋💋

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If you have to ask it's probably best to postpone

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I don't but into the Hollywoodvidea of perfect, over the top romance/relationships. Real love isn't always easy, takes two loving people who are also great friends.

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I have bipolar, depression, amxiety and a few other issues. I just got married 7 days ago. We have been together over 6 years. I knew and know that he is my one soulmate. I did have some worries that i was not his in the beginning of our relationship, but that was gone within the first 2 years.
If you are feeling this way. And you have years to go until you get married, it probably isn't the anxiety/jitters. There might be something to it.

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I felt the same exact way! That's why I just love Glow!!! So many of you say just exactly how I feel and who better to discuss it with eachother!!!!!

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