Husband only wants one child

My husband and I are in our early 30’s and just had our son a few months ago. Before having our son we discussed having one or two children and we were both leaning towards one. However, now that my son is here, I feel like I’d like for him to have a sibling, someone for him to go through life with. My labor was rough/traumatic and I’ve had an exceptionally difficult time postpartum. Sometimes I worry about how I would manage with two children, but I know I could handle it.

My husband is pretty set on our son being our one and only and it makes me sad. I loved being pregnant, and I would like to experience it again.

Because we are in our 30’s, I feel like we don’t have years to decide. I’d like to have a second child in the next 2-2.5 years if my husband changes his mind.

I guess what I’m looking to hear is if there’s anyone else that has wanted a second child whose partner didn’t. Did they end up changing their mind? Why or why not?