I can't orgasm from vaginal, we have tried different positions and nothing. Worst than that i cant orgasm from clitoral while having sex at the same time, it seems to change how it feels/the spot that gets hit too much. The only way i have one is for him to rub me afterwards or to use a vibrator after. Even with a vibrator during intercourse its almost impossible. When he rubs me afterwards it feels great but he said it makes his arm tired and i should be able to do it different ways not just in one way. Has anyone had this issue or have advice? We usually do it and he just goes to sleep after.