My rapist is trying to talk to my sister in law
So long story short.. 6 years ago when I was a freshman in high school my date to homecoming was a senior and he ended up raping me. I didn’t tell anyone because there was no way in hell my family was going to believe me without proof (I had none) and even then I know for a fact they would have tried to some how make it my fault even though he trapped me in his house and held me down and forced me
Anyway.... I am now married to an amazing man
His sister who is 16, was dating this guy and I liked him for her and thought they were good together. He was respectful and caring..... well a few months into their relationship I found out who her boyfriends brother was.... my rapist 💀 (they have different last names so I didn’t know)
I also found out that every now and then when her and her boyfriend would be handing out they would also hangout with my rapist.... I wasn’t okay with this but at the same time no one knew what he did to me so I just told her that he’s not a good person and she needs to stay away from him. She said she had heard that from a lot of people but said that he kinda just shows up sometimes when she’s with her boyfriend
Well recently her boyfriend and her broke up.... I just found out tonight that my rapist reached out to her and was like “hey if you ever need someone to talk to you can reach out to me”....... this “man” (he’s not a man.. he’s a fucking pos) is 24 years old.... if not 25 because he’s 2 years older than me and I’m about to be 23 and he’s reaching out to a fucking 16 year old.
THAT IS NOT OKAY!!!!!!
he’s done so many other things while she was dating her boyfriend and I’m so fucking over it
I want nothing to do with him but at this point I’m about to reach out to him and tell him to leave her the fuck alone.... I might not have been able to defend myself back then but I’ll be dammed if he does anything to her!!!
I ended up messaging him on Facebook last night and he responded a few minutes ago with this.
I trust my sister in law to do the right thing such as blocking him and not speaking to him... she’s not stupid....... I however, don’t trust him!! After he raped me he stalked me for 6 fucking months. If I went literally anywhere whether I was alone or not.. sure enough he would be there too.... and once I was in my bedroom and looked out my window and he was standing in my front lawn at fucking 2 in the morning.
I am sick to my stomach that he thinks he has a choice over who he talks to... especially when it comes to MY FAMILY
