Pubic hair removal after cars product

I’m looking for the best product to put on after removing pubic hair. I have been getting Brazilian waxes (until lockdown of course) because it always caused less irritation than waxing. But I still got ingrowns and dark/red spots on my pores. I’d do exfoliation before like my esthetician said, and went to a very reputable salon, AND used the very expensive serum after like she told me to. But I’m still not clear down there. Two different esthetician’s have told me the spots are ingrowns, but I feel like it’s not just that, like that’s the bad spots but the other spots are like discoloration or something. I’m also thinking about switching to shaving because I need to stop spending so much money on waxing, I also don’t want to keep purchasing the $50 3oz bottle of serum she says I should use. I’ve tried a really cheap sally Hansen product (little soaked cotton rounds) that I’m pretty sure threw off my Ph balance, and I’m prone to yeast infections.

I’ve seen online that Tend Skin, and Fur are good brands. But idk which one to try.

I saw that tend skin has both an ingrown treatment serum and a brightoner for dark spots. But I’m not sure which one is right for me and I’m also hoping to not need to spend money on both 😬

What products are best?!