I really need help figuring out what I should do next. Right now I’m dating a guy and I’ve known him for 3 years but we weren’t that close of friends but we did have feelings for eachother. But now since college time is rolling around he’s already talking about moving away and acts like it’s not big deal. Then there’s the other guy, I’ve known him ever since I was a kid. He was my first crush too until I moved away. He lives in Indiana and I live in Florida. But I recently found out that we both liked each other and got back in touch. He told me that even though he lives in Indiana that he would buy his own plane ticket and come down here to see me in a heartbeat. My bf is a city boy and doesn’t have barely any manners like such he’s nice but I don’t even know that he knows what chivalry is. But the other guy has extremely good manners, is a country boy( I love them considering I lived in the country for 90% of my life), he’s already planning on seeing me when I go up north to visit my fam. AND my fam has already met him and LOVE him.

I’m just so confused on what I should do. I want to be with my childhood crush but I also don’t want my current bf to hate me knowing that I left him for a guy that’s over 1,000 miles away. 😭😭 I don’t know what to do!!!