Been with my current bf for almost three years now. We live about 20 minutes to an hour away from each other but only see each other on the weekend. We’ve gone through a lot during our relationship. I have times were I absolutely hate being in a LDR bc of the distance. It’s often feels like I’m not in a relationship just that I text someone all day everyday. I get easily annoyed. We put visiting each other on hold bc of our ups and downs. We hadn’t seen each other in 4 months and recently he came to visit and we had sex right away. He couldn’t stay hard and now we haven’t seen each other. I asked if it was me he said it wasn’t. I kind of feel like it was a bad idea bc we skipped FaceTime and calling easing back into it . I’ve gone to his house a few times throughout our relationship but we spent most of our time at my house in the state I live in. He would always say he didn’t have any privacy bc he still lived at his parents house but now that he lives alone it just hasn’t come up that he wants me there. Before I felt like I was begging him to let me come to his house just so we weren’t always at my house. He said things would change and I’m just not seeing the change. Maybe I’m not giving it enough time.

I know the post is all over the place just venting. Idk what to do. To give it time now that we’re getting back into talking on the phone FaceTime but it’s like I have to ask for him to call me on either one of those. And maybe in the future he’ll start inviting me to his house or want to see me again. As I’ve said we’ve gone through a lot and bc we hadn’t seen each other in 4 months before meeting back up maybe he needs time. Although we talked the whole 4 months.