Mother Inlaw doesn't want my babygirl 💔

Hi ladies

So Im 17weeks pregnant with my girl it was initially twins but the other one didn't survive so we are now left with a one, and we found out that it's another girl🎀🍭 we already have a 4year old gorgeous babygirl, my husband is happy but his mother whose my mother in law really broke my heart with her response and she constantly reminds me of how incompetent I am as a woman for having another girl and she has tagged in my sister Inlaw who already hates my guts because for some reason her best friend had a crush on my husband and he told me everything and obviously doesn't want her he never has I guess that upsets them, by the way she (the bestfriend) only wanted him after we got married 5years ago, so anyway we leave 15min away from them and when my husband is not home they come over to troll me my mother in law and sister Inlaw, they teaching my daughter horrible manners and I just don't know what to do😭💔 this is his mother and iv tried and Im still trying for these people to like me, I cook for them most Sundays, I send them groceries I encourage my husband to check on his mom often and I still get the cold treatment, now I know my husband adores me and his just greatful to God for new life and our new family member but they make me feel so depressed and sad. I want to be excited about my babygirl but I'm just feeling low and like I failed at something and I just wanted to vent because my family leaves so far.. So here😔