Okay, so I started having sex within the past year and I’ve only had 3 partners- my ex boyfriend, tinder hookup #1, and tinder hookup #2. I have an IUD and so my ex boyfriend and I started out with condoms and then we forwent them because we were in a committed relationship. Then we broke up, and I proceeded to hook up with tinder hookup #1 without a condom, only hooked up with him once. Tinder hookup #2 and I then started having sex and we also did not use a condom and he had asked me about sexual health and all that because he cares about it, and I assured him I was clean because the other guys I slept with told me they were clean, but I didn’t get a test done or anything. NOW, I am feeling stupid and embarrassed because I realize that I could totally have an STD from taking people at their word instead of getting actually tested because my ex boyfriend and tinder hookup #1 are both kind of gross dudes and I doubt they actually knew whether or not they were clean and just said they were- and now, I actually really like tinder hookup #2, and I’m terrified that I have asymptomatic chlamydia or something like that. I am seeing my OBGYN on June 1st so I’ll get tested then and everything, but fuuuuck I feel so dumb for not getting tested sooner because I really like this guy now and while I thought everything was fine I realized there’s a good chance that everything is NOT fine and that I seriously fucked up. I don’t think I’m going to bring it up until I get test results, and when we started having sex I told him that I hadn’t been tested recently but the two guys I slept with said they were clean and we just haven’t addressed it since, but now I just so feel like I fucked up. I think it’s just anxiety because I like this guy and I’m getting scared to fuck shit up, but it’s also a very real concern that I did fuck up! If I do get diagnosed with an STD, how do I bring that up to someone I have been actively sleeping with without protection? Sincerely, a DUMB BITCH😭