This is the first Mother’s Day for my wife and I, and typically I spoil her on all gift giving days. For our first Mother’s Day though I wanted to be spoiled, I carried our twins and truth be told I do almost everything for them. My wife helps every now and then but I do a majority of the work of raising them. Is it selfish to want to be spoiled instead of me spoiling her? I know I can be petty but after 8 months of carrying twins, a c-section and 5 months of 24/7 parenting (with little help) I feel like I deserve it!