Do you have a FUPA, does it make you insecure?

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So I have always had a FUPA (fat upper pussy area)....even when I was at my skinniest. How have some of you ladies got over the insecurities of this fatty area? It is one reason I don't let my SO see me with the lights on. I can hide it in clothes but just in pannies or naked, is impossible. I have confessed my insecurities to him and he loves it but for some reason that doesn't help me mentally lol.

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Yes, it's been that way my whole life..  I've always personally hated it..  But no man I have ever been with has ever said anything and some men are a little too brutally honest about things

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I think you just have to love and accept yourself . Also, as long as your SO loves it and has no problems with it, who cares? Lol, I've always been comfortable in my skin but recently gained about 40 pounds. Healthy, adult weight I'm guessing because it went to my thighs, butt, boobs and some in my belly . I was depressed, I was used to being an itty bitty girl . But every single day my boyfriend made sure he said how beautiful I was and that truly made a difference . So, embrace the fupa girl! Lol.

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I understand what your saying I hate it and the other day for Halloween I had a costume and it was a tight skirt and you could see the outline of my "FUFA" haha so annoying, do you know how to get rid of it?

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I have always had body image issues... I have never liked how I looked but since meeting my boyfriend I am more confident in myself because how I view myself and how my boyfriend views is all that matters. You shouldn't be insecure about it he loves you ^.^ fupa and all.

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I hate it, it makes me so insecure especially when you see all the women with very flat areas. My oh doesn't care but it bothers me so much, my friends keep saying why don't you get waxed down there and I do want to but I just can't it's horrible.

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I had a tummy tuck to get rid of mine as I lost over 100 pounds and it was driving me nuts...