Hello. Almost 21 weeks pregnant. I lost a lot of weight to get pregnant, and I lost even more since finding out I am pregnant.

My belly has started to grow.. but there is no baby bump. I just look fatter, but haven't gained any numbers on the scale.. my entire life my family has told me I was too fat to get a partner or too fat to be pretty. Blah blah

Anyways, on our way to get something for breakfast, I was feeling kind of down because none of my large t-shirts fit anymore, and I don't look pregnant. This conversation happened:

"I wish I could just tell everyone there is a baby in my belly and I'm not just getting fat again."

Him "Yeah. There are two of you, but one of you just started putting on fat."

Me: "Mmhmm."

Him: "You should move to Italy, because at least they find fat people sexy there.. you would fit in."

Me: "what part of you could have possibly thought that comment was okay?"

I made him turn around and take me home and have been crying ever since. : ((