Vent post

So my husband brought his mother a water heater and told both of us this is our mother's day gift. On mother's day he brought his mom flowers and s card with money. This is my problem he promised me I could change my daughter name because her name was supposed to be Penelope Rose but I was in the ICU after I had her so he filled the paper work and named her Elena Esmeralda. He said you can change her name for mother's day now because his mother said she would disown my daughter and I he said no. I dealt with a lot from him at least he could stand up to her and tell her but no. I am done I emotionally cut her off now. I told him I will eventually emotionally cut him off. He said if I change her name he will divorce me. I said go ahead and do that remember you are in the United States because of me. Your illegal ass will get deported.