Announcement

Mom pregnant with baby #2 - 10 weeks along. My husband really wants to feel our family but I want to wait a little longer and do a fun announcement.  This is my 5 pregnancy - my daughter will be 5 in January.  I miscarried at 12 weeks, 6 weeks & 7 weeks.  I'm very hesitant to tell my daughter now as I want to wait to get past 12. Anyone else having a struggle with this too?