Hi ladies,

This is my first month off BC in about 15 years. I’m on CD9, technically, but who knows if that is even going to be regular. According to the Glow prediction, my OV day is May 19. I started using the clear blue OPK yesterday because I don’t trust the app knowing my cycle will probably not be “regular” for a few months. I’m finding myself starting to obsess over which days to BD (aiming for every other day) but I don’t want my hubby to start thinking I’m only wanting to BD for pregnancy as we probably only did it about once a week before TTC. obviously that can take the enjoyment out of it. Anyone else going through the same or have tips about what days to do it, how often, and most importantly to me not make it start to feel like a chore or like I’m only wanting to do it for pregnancy?

Also, I’d love to hear how long it took for your cycle to normalize after BC pill. Any tips? Help a newbie out 😊