We've been fostering our kiddos for almost 2.5 years. There are three parents involved. Bio mom of my eldest has had nothing to do with my eldest since this all started so I'm not referring to her in this post. Mom of the youngest and dad have done the bare minimum for everything. Mom went to jail 4 months after losing the kiddos after being constantly inconsistent and showing up high multiple times. She was realeased 5 months later to mental health court. She wasnt even out a year and was arrested again for shop lifting and then for relapsing. She was out in a week. She refuses to get a job, she's been applying for disability. She also refuses to get herself an appartment. She says her PO is going to do it for her. Dad went to jail 10 months after losing the kids after being spotting, showing up high, and then even having no contact for 6 months. He was supposed to be released into mental health court but due to covid it has been postponed. We were told by CNY that they were going to push for TPR at the next hearing. Well we were told the day before our last hesring they changed their mind. Before we found out that they were canceling TPR we discovered that mom took out utility bills in my youngest kiddos name and reported it to CNY because a police report needs to be filed and charges need to be placed ornitll ruin my little's credit. I don't want to be that person, but i also don't want to see these kiddos hurt anymore. My little's mother already has three older kiddos that she lost all rights to. My eldest kiddo has been taken off hisnparents three times already. Both kiddos came.to us malnourished, dirty, and just so broken. My little went through withdraw for 2 weeks because mom was using while breast feeding and that was the only food my little was getting. I'm not sure if im just looking to vent or get advice but im just feeling so heartbroken for these kids. They need stability. They need a forever home.