What do you call it

When you partner doesn’t even try to make you happy. Like he does but in his own way so he’s happy too. Like I wanted to go to the beach but he absolutely refused. So we decided to go for a ride down the beach without actually getting out. I wanted to go to a shop since we were down where were at. He said he didn’t want to. He decided to stop at a friends house to say hi instead. Like wtf! I always do whatever he wants to do but when so suggest something I’m always turned down. I told him how I felt but got no response. I told him I needed an hour away from the kids and he told me that I decided to keep them so that’s what I get. So when we got home he left for a couple of hours. I’m literally breaking down to nothing and crying my eyes out. I’m tired. I just want to be fucking heard. I feel like my words and actions have no context or meaning...