I’m 13 and a half weeks

And I still haven’t announced the pregnancy to our families. I was hoping I’d feel comfortable to announce in on Mother’s Day, but I just didn’t... I’ve even announced it to a couple coworkers but I just don’t feel comfortable or ready to say it to our families!

We’re seeing my husband’s family on Saturday for a belated Mother’s Day picnic and my family lives overseas. I bought grandma cards to give to them but didn’t end up using them, I still could if I decide to.

I feel like I’ll get unwarranted advice or people fussing over me even from a distance and I don’t know if I’m ready for that.

Why do I feel this way? Why can I feel like I can tell my coworkers and not my family yet? How do I get over it?