How would you feel if your SO did this? UPDATE

So I posted today about an OBGYN who said terrible, disgusting things to me today during a consultation after my first Pap smear came back abnormal. He slut shames me, asked inappropriate questions and comments, and insinuated I was lying about things. He also gave me inaccurate information and treated me like a slut.

My boyfriend was told a slim version:

He asked a bunch of unnecessary questions about my sex life, like the amount, when I started having sex, who was protected and not. And proceeded to slut shame me and said that me and you probably won’t last

He knows about the abnormal finding, but he doesn’t know that’s why I went.

He said it’s normal to ask questions like that. Then said I was overreacting.

I’m honestly kinda disgusted with his response. I’m not gonna fight about it, he probably didn’t even read it right, he works 12 hours a day. But I’m still hurt he almost agrees with the doctor.

He’s typically a really sweet, protective guy, who knew my past and never made comments about my past, as I’m a sexual assault victim. I’m trying to look on the other cheek, and believe the best in him.

UPDATE:

The post name is “my OBGYN slut shames me UPDATE”

UPDATE:

For anyone wondering!

My number is 24, but I only consented to 9. I was in an abusive relationship and forced to have sex with strangers. The reason I found his comments about my number disgusting was because he made it with no further questions and actually, he never asked the number protectors. I told him. He also never asked if I was vaccinated, and he didn’t know till I told him. He talked to be like I was stupid or not even a person. My mother was disgusted with him as well and has never had someone ask those questions to her. She’s almost 60

UPDATE:

I LOOKED UP REVIEWS AND HES DONE THIS WITH NUMEROUS WOMEN!!!

Damn I should’ve checked before

ALSO their is a female OBGYN in my town, I have no idea why the doctor never told me.