Ok. So maybe we are overreacting but our families are super annoying and we want to lay down rules for them about it when we announce. Like... no social media publications, no advices and opinions unsolicited, talking with external people about private matters, follow the doctors guidelines if they want to be around baby (in my country it is obligatory for people tat are going to be around the baby before two months to have a vaccine for whooping cough sin it is a big deal here). no constant nagging about how we need to be careful, etc.

What rules would you think you could stablish before announcing so there is no problems with family after? I just want to have an easy going pregnancy without keep getting in fights with our families constantly. Yes I know the tules are going to be a fight but it will be a take it or leave it.