Stressing out about maternity leave

Okay first time mom here. I’m trying to stay calm but get everything in order for my little squirrel arriving 11/14.

I just found out I don’t qualify for FMLA for Maternity Leave and I didn’t sign up for Short term disability either because I was not planning anything like this for quite sometime

Our little squirrel was a complete surprise, but were very excited and getting prepared day by day.

I found I can apply for ADA but this is unpaid leave, darn. How do you mamas do it when you’re on leave after birth 8-12 weeks to take care of your little one?

Just looking for some advice and comfort 💕

Thank you all for the support it’s always appreciated💕