Hi everyone, my partner and I have had a big fight due to him not helping much with day to day things and especially the baby. I mostly look after the baby 24/7 even though my partners on holidays atm. He keeps stepping in (out of spite) and looks after our son for an hour or so but purposefully won’t speak/talk or smile at him and if he cries he just stares at him but will pick him up. Is this abuse?? I started crying and asked him to stop and said I would take over if he wasn’t feeling up for it and he just cracks it and walks off and then won’t spend time with him at all. But I’m starting to think him not looking after him is better than him being mean. He will just throw it back in my face and say I’m controlling the baby and won’t let him see him.

If anyone can offer suggestions please let me know