How do you rebuild a relationship when trust is lost?

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I know most women are going to say “well don’t be in the relationship anymore if trust isn’t there” and I’ve already thought that through-believe me. But I feel as though my boyfriend is worth it and that he is the man I’m supposed to be with so what I’m asking is if we’re going through a rough patch right now where I’m trying to trust him again... how do I go about this? If anyone’s gone through something similar before, how did you go about it? And were you successful?

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It really just takes time & a different train of thought

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It will always be in the back of your mind, you will always second-guess and doubt and wonder if they are telling you the truth, wondering if they really are where they are saying they are, who they are with, it will always be in the back of your mind what happened. You can’t erase memories unfortunately, it also depends on why the trust was broken. If they cheated, hell no. But you staying you are validating that behavior is acceptable and that you will tolerate that behavior and when they do it again and they will, don’t be shocked.

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Depends on how the trust was lost in the first place and what is happening on his end and yours to rebuild the relationship

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My mom told me if you can’t forgive don’t waste your time trying. Once you learn to forgive you can learn to rebuild trust

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It will take time and a lot of work. Also depends what happened too. Was he watching porn? Gambling? Seeking attention else where?