My boyfriend and I have had a rough and rocky relationship, like all LDRs. But it's been worse at points but at least we are both trying. He'll be here in January and at that time we won't have seen each other for 9 months. Is it weird for me propose because I'm the girl and because of our rocky relationship? We are really in love and do everything to make our relationship work. We've been together for 1.5 years and I'm doing it either way. I just want to know if it's weird. In this day I know more women are proposing so...is it really that weird?